In case you need a refresher: Erika and Damon come to Jaiya struggling with their sexual compatibility. While we can't teach you exactly how to have an energy orgasm, we can at least direct you to more information on the 'Erotic Blueprints,' the sexual theory that somatic sexologist Jaiya introduces to couple Erika and Damon in the first episode. If you, like us, binged Netflix and Gwyneth Paltrow's enlightening new reality show, Sex, Love & goop, then you probably came away with more than a few questions on how to apply the series' teachings to your own life.